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Neuro-linguistic Programming for Dummies
January 11, 2008, 5:07 am
Filed under: Lifeskills, skills

Personal notes from Neuro-linguistic Programming for Dummies

The four pillars of NLP

  • Rapport
  • Sensory Awareness
  • Outcome Thinking
  • Behavioural Flexibility

The 4-point formula for success

  • Know the outcome – visualise it, sense it
  • Take action
  • Have sensory awareness – to know how effective the actions are
  • Have behavioural flexibility – change behaviour if actions do not lead to results

Anchors

  • To recreate a previous resourceful state, anchor an action to the feelings one get from that state.
  • Perform that action and recreate that state.

The map is not the territory

  • Perception never fits reality
  • We see reality through lenses – distortion, deletion and generalisation
  • Each person has a favourite way of viewing reality – kinaesthetic, visual, auditory

Looking at the eye

  • Reading a person’s preference from eye movements
  • Looking at someone, if the eyes go:
    • Straight ahead – visual (images new or old)
    • Top right – visual remembered
    • Top left – visual constructed
    • Straight right – auditory remembered
    • Straight left -auditory constructed
    • Bottom left – kinaesthetic
    • Bottom right – auditory (internal) dialogue
  • In a small proportion of the population, including about half of all left-handers, the signs are reversed.
  • Triggering movement in eyes: e.g. asking “think of your dog’s face” – eyes shift top right
  • Hence to spot a liar, watch the eyes.

Rapport

  • Basic body language techniques
  • Ape the other – breathing, words, movement
  • Talk about the other person
  • Genuine interest
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